How to understand that the girl liked your first date and everything went well?

Table of contents:

1. The main signs that your object of sympathy wants to meet again
2. How to prepare for a second date?

You had your first rendezvous. It all worked out; the girl you liked so much at work, or your neighbor, had dinner with you. You managed to invite her. She even wore her best dress; you complimented her and gave her flowers. Congratulations! However, do you have doubts about whether everything went as well as you wanted?

You have mixed feelings from the category: she smiled, we laughed, flirted somewhere, exchanged contacts, and even kissed a little at the end of the evening. However, something went wrong, and you are not quite sure, or, conversely, you have loaded yourself with unnecessary worries. In any case, you want to be one hundred percent sure that the romantic meeting went well, and you need to act and take advantage of the opportunity to schedule a new date to set the record straight.

Well, if you haven't gone on a romantic date for a long time or are new to this, it will be challenging to assess how close the desired result is. So many factors indicate the obvious - the date went as expected, and the girl is waiting for your call. It's hard to gather your thoughts when so many questions are in your head. Will she write? What did she think of me when I told her about myself? Did she sincerely laugh at my jokes? Would I be a good person for her? Is it adequate to call and ask her how her evening was? Did she hug me out of politeness or for real? Do not torture yourself with a million stupid questions. It is better to learn the apparent signs of a successful date and relax.

The main signs that your object of sympathy wants to meet again 

You tried and planned the romance that you waited for so long. You have thought out to the smallest detail where you will go, where you will sit, what you will wear, and specially selected your favorite perfume and flowers. In general, you were as well-armed with organization and charm. 

The main and the same initial sign

Your romantic dinner lasted longer than you expected. You should agree that no one wants to sit with an uninteresting snob. The girls often do not tolerate that. Interestingly, every young lady has a backup plan in case she doesn't like the gentleman or the date is going terribly. In such a situation, she receives a call at the end of which she says that her cat got sick or she had to save her friend from depression. If this did not happen in your case, do not worry. When you sit in a restaurant or bar, and your conversation flows like a brook, while you feel discomfort and do not have time to enjoy the moment, everything goes well.

The second meaningful sign is humor

You were laughing, smiling, even crying with laughter together? It signifies that you are a great guy and strongly attract a woman. According to the observations of psychologists, if the couple laughs a lot at a romantic meeting, they feel sympathy and attraction to each other. Therefore, we highly recommend not losing this character trait.

The third fact is that the conversation goes equally and evenly

Many have experienced discomfort on a date because the person constantly says "I," not allowing the partner to insert a single word. But everything went great if you both managed to talk about yourselves during the meeting and feel easy and confident after the conversation. Your politeness and willingness to listen to your partner will not go unnoticed. 

The fourth sign is eye contact

A look will never lie and will let you know whether your partner is interested in you. Of course, eye contact scares some people, especially on a first date. But, if you looked into each other's eyes during your conversation or an acceptable moment of silence, that's it, interest and sympathy. And indeed, the beauty of a woman's eyes is mesmerizing. So, suppose you like a girl and can not take your eyes away from her. In that case, she will notice it at once because it is essential for women that the partner is interested not only in the physical component of the relationship.

The fifth fact that proves that everything went well is that neither of you avoided physical contact

We are not talking about intimacy here. It means touching your arm, your shoulder. Even the girl's permission to take off her coat or to give her hand from the car indicates a clear interest. A woman will never let a man touch her unless she wants him to. You're lucky if she laughed at your joke and casually felt you. She is certainly happy.

Social media is where many young ladies spend all their time texting or posting about their lives. She is okay with continuing to communicate if she shows you her page and subscribes to you. And if your chosen one wanted to take a picture with you or even put up stories, it's a done deal. She shows the social media audience this way about her busy personal life. At the same time, do not worry if the girl hides your identity and face. It does not mean that she is embarrassed by you. It is just essential for her to keep your relationship a secret for now.

The ultimate sign of connection: why ignoring your phone is proof of a successful dat

The seventh indisputable proof that the date went well is that you had no desire to pull out your phone and flip through your Instagram feed or view missed calls. Partners usually perform such actions when the conversation has reached an impasse.

Eighth sign - you began to discuss the near future

It is not a wedding or children, but a joint trip to the new movie that will be released soon or an exhibition of paintings. No one emphasized that either of you is not looking for a serious relationship or is too busy with work. Getting this information at the beginning of your romantic time will allow you to avoid a humiliating and unpleasant conversation followed by rejection.

Social media: the key to unlocking your date's true feelings

The ninth sign is that she has told her date on her Instagram or Facebook page, friends, and close companions. If your impressions are that warm, the girl probably has the same.

The long goodbye: why walking your date home could mean something more

The tenth indicator is that you walked the lady home. A long parting also indicates sympathy and a good relationship. If you stand and talk for a long time under her apartment, with butterflies in your stomach, do not doubt - it is sympathy and attraction.

You can also evaluate the productivity of the date by sending a text message within 24 hours after the meeting with a question about how she rested, whether everything was good with her, and whether she liked it. You can accentuate that you are looking forward to a new occasion to see a lovely woman like her. It will signal her that she made a lasting impression and looked as chic as possible.

The above indicates only one thing: your date was successful, and you are ready for another romantic meeting. The main thing is to gather your thoughts, believe in yourself, do not doubt that the second will be no worse than the first. 

Following these tactics to prepare for the meeting with the woman of your dreams, you should not only arrange the place of the date but also take care of your appearance, as well as the gift that you present to the lady. If you come empty-handed, she may think you are greedy or inconsiderate. Follow the call of your heart, which encourages you to invite this girl again and again, wake up with thoughts of her, and feel like a "young guy in love" again.

How to prepare for a second date?

You are full of determination, and your attention is focused only on the events of the first date. Why remember it? Getting ready for the second date is essential, but where to start?

First, call her and arrange to have dinner together or a walk in the park. Choose a fancy restaurant. Order it in advance if she mentions her favorite cuisine or dish when we first met. The girl will appreciate your ability to organize a romance and your attention to detail coolly.

Come to the meeting on time, and buy the favorite flowers of the young lady. No matter how many girls say they don't like bouquets, that's not true. Flowers signify attention, courtship, and sympathy for the woman. It is worth coming in advance to the place where you agreed to see each other. So, you can undoubtedly prepare everything for a perfect date. 

The most important thing is to be confident and stop doubting your abilities and male charm. You have already made a great impression. Your lady is fascinated by you because she agreed to a second meeting. Straighten your back, comb your hair, put on your favorite perfume, wear a watch, and be attentive to your appearance. Women love with their eyes and ears. It is essential for the girl that the man next to her looks beautiful and stately. Prepare everything for a magical pastime, which she will want to repeat. Please take note of a few untold funny stories that will make her listen to you repeatedly. Ask her how she spent her time after your first meeting, her mood, and what she would like to do, and make her wishes come true because girls love determined guys.

Thanks to these tricks, the second date will be no worse than the first. So hold the bar, catch the moment, and you will achieve success.